A part of being married means that you have to let go of some of the things that you usually do when you are still single. And most people who are getting married have no idea that taking on a trip with their friends instead of their significant other before marriage will help you decide if she really is the one that you are looking for.
Most people would agree that it takes a little bit long before a man finally decides to commit himself to a lifelong commitment. Men actually take time to enjoy the liberty and less responsibility that they have during the times when they are still bachelors. They can drink whenever they want, go to places they want to go to and spend their money on things that they like without being controlled by, well, a wife.
Assuming that a man finally finds the girl who will walk down the aisle with him and share the rest of his life with, there are many factors that must be considered before being sure that the man is already prepared to seriously commit himself. Hence, taking a trip with his friends before he gets married will show the signs to whether or not a man is ready to face the sacred union he is about to commit himself with.
According to Jarred Moss, getting married means that you will need to make a plan for you, for your wife and your future family. It will also prevent you from doing the things that you are used to doing while you are still a bachelor. From your daily routines, your savings plan, your budget and expenses, your time management, and even the food that you are about to eat each passing day.
Taking a trip with your friends before the day of your wedding will actually help you discover yourself. Are you ready for this commitment? Are you ready to let go of the usual boys' Friday night-out with your buddies? It will help you realize the things in your life that are about to change and the adjustments that you will have to make in order to please and make your wife happy.
There will come a time when you will crave for liberty just like the one that you have while you are still uncommitted. Travelling with people other than your wife-to-be before you get married will actually prepare yourself to the true essence of companionship from the time that you were still alone and up to the moment of you being married to the love of your life, Naij says.
It may seem odd to others but travelling with your buddies before you tie yourself to the woman that you love will basically help a lot for your own self and surprisingly, for your marriage as well.